Nov
4
2011

Do you choose boredom or suffering?

Madame de Staël, a French-Swiss champion of women’s rights and a major opponent to Napolean from the late 1700s said, “One must choose in life between boredom and suffering.”

Wayseers have very low tolerances for boredom. We are sensation seekers. We crave action and excitement. In fact we don’t just crave action … we need it.

So if Madame de Staël is right – and I believe she is – our Wayseer temperaments, which drive us to avoid boredom at all costs, also drive us straight into suffering. We suffer because we can’t stand to be bored.

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  • Ha ha! Always funny to stumble across something from another life. I still prefer to suffer.

  • Yes, we are driven straight into suffering because boredom, in fact, is a direct gateway into the Void of Nonexistence. Beneath the boredom of ‘linear mind’ and beyond the boredom of ‘no mind” lies direct access to the core of Being– depths of void so deep –to penetrate them is to annihilate your very soul.
    Not a choice any would willingly choose.
    Yet there, discovery occurs of another light that shines beyond Soul.
    Source Itself ready to inform you
    of what you have never known before.

  • We need suffering to ‘get rid’ of baggage, ‘old wifes tales’, worn-out beliefs, fears and society ‘tags’, because it only stifles nidividual growth and development – suffering is merely the effort it takes to crawl through the small opening/hole in the cocoon of boredom, which inhibits us. In retrospect suffering lasts only a moment compared to the reward of living life fully and times in which we can literally spread our creative wings and fly freely!

  • I heard something in a movie once…’your life, comedy or tragedy? It’s your choice.’
    it stuck with me, I even wrote a children’s story about it.

    These fundamental choices are the ones that will effect a lifetime and if we can let kids know that they actually HAVE these choices then they can potentially change a generation….

  • You know I really don’t think we NEED suffering to learn anymore…
    thats a choice to, albeit sometimes a tough one too make when the programming for suffering is so strong.
    I choose daily to learn and grow through JOY!

    it’s working so far.

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